Class with Kate

One thing from this week's videos stood out to me... what is your emotional state BEFORE you get on social media? Do you even know? And the biggest question.. are you aware of HOW that affects the meaning you make from what you see?
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Sooo you know that feeling your feelings it the key to changing your behavior, but you don't know where to start. It feels like going into the abyss. I have the solution for you... A HATE LIST. Yes, I said it, a HATE list. In this episode I talk about what it is, why it works, and how you can implement it into your life. 
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So I made a video that said "stop telling your kids how their behavior makes you feel" and it got a lottttttt of pushback. Let's discuss what emotions are and how to handle them in the relationship contexts of parenting, marriage, and with your own parents/estrangement situations.
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The MOST misunderstood topic IN THE WORLD in my opinion.... emotions. In this episode I'll tell you how to understand them and how to process them.
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We hear sooooo much about emotion regulation but nobody talks about how to do it in a practical and actually USEFUL way. Introducing... my BEND method. BEND is an acronym that stands for behavior, emotions, needs, and desires. 
This is the first episode of a series on BEND, so let me know your questions so I can answer them in the coming episodes! Click to sign up for more info- https://forms.gle/kaqH2qk9sgcrFRMM9
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THE MILLION DOLLAR QUESTION... what is the gray area when your partner is exhibiting harmful behavior AND is resistant to change. Hopefully this perspective helps the journey... because it truly is one.
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The million dollar question... plus some BIG NEWS on a personal front. But beware... it's not all fun and games, I talk about the controversial video I posted this week regarding Israel/Palestine and its structural similarities to the parent-child dynamic. 
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Yeah.... we had to talk about it. Unfortunately, Abby and I have opinions that only the minority of people share regarding the whole "Kendra fell in love with her psychiatrist" fiasco playing out on TikTok. Abby is a therapist specializing in childhood trauma, specifically childhood sexual abuse, and we get into why we believe Kendra.
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Listening is the #1 skill that transforms relationships in my opinion. Here I'll elaborate on what your role is when it comes to listening (whether that's with your own parents, in your relationship, and with your kids) and more specifics on how to do it. If you're a parent or a married man, guard your ego because I'm coming for it!
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Shawna Lander is the crazy talented actor behind her skit series on family dynamics. It features characters Shawna, her husband John, her MIL Barb, SIL Jen, and others… I was lucky enough to connect with her and talk with her about her work and mission, motherhood, and most specifically, her extremely triggering character Barb! Hope you all enjoy this as much as I did!
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